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Back In Paris, But For How Long? My Life As A Serial Expat

Secret Diary Reveals Real Story Behind Live And Invest Overseas

Kat Kalashian by Kat Kalashian
Apr 14, 2019
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After almost 12 years away, I’m finally back in France.

Just how long I’ll get to stay this time is anybody’s guess.

You’d be forgiven for calling me a serial expat. But I was born into it, rather than choosing the path for myself…
My mom, Kathleen Peddicord, moved the family to Ireland when I was 8 years old. If you’re familiar with Kathleen’s missives, you know that, although I finally settled into our new life, I wasn’t entirely thrilled to be leaving U.S. shores behind.

And, after seven years, I’d seen enough of Irish mists, ceaseless green pastures, and old country charm to last me a lifetime.

I knew there had to be more out there.

Luckily for me, in their fourth year of secondary school, Irish kids get what’s fondly referred to as a “doss year.”

“Transition year” is the official term, but it’s basically a gap year—a chance for these teenagers to get their heads out of books and feet on new paths before settling into study for their final school exams.

I decided Paris was my new path.

I broke the news to my parents, looked up boarding schools (thinking I’d be going solo), filled out applications, and planned a scouting trip.

Turned out, I wasn’t the only one with a seven-year itch… as evidenced by the “For Sale” sign that was promptly hung outside our Irish country home.

Yes, the whole family was along for this Parisian ride, including my Irish-born brother Jack, about to be launched into his own version of my childhood transplantation—this time at my behest (oh, the irony).

And I loved everything about Paris. Not to say it was all croissants and accordions…

The first year in Paris was just as difficult as that first one in Ireland—though in vastly different ways. Once I became fluent in French, it felt like the world was at my fingertips…

And, along with so many other things, I discovered my passion in life—art, which led me to study art history in New York.

Now, at this point, you may be thinking…

“But Paris… art… isn’t that the perfect combination? Why on earth, Kat, did you go back to the United States?”

By then, my then-boyfriend (now husband) Harry was living in the States. That may have been an influence. But, honestly, it never really occurred to me to go to school in any other country.

Little did I know that the transition back to the States would be the hardest move of my life—that first year, missing Paris, was the worst of them all.

Whenever anyone asked if I’d stay, my answer was always a firm:

“No, I’m just doing what I have to do to get back to France.”

But, by the time those four years were up, the tables had turned once again…

By now, Harry—who had been working for Live and Invest Overseas for several years—had moved on down to Panama City. And, so, Panama became my next stop… and was home for seven more years… until the itch set in once again…

So here I am back in Paris, husband willingly in tow. The place that, somehow, unwittingly, my 14-year-old-self suspected the future should lead.

I tell you all this, dear reader, not to bore you with my life story (apologies after the fact), but to illustrate that expat life comes in many chapters… not all necessarily chosen or ideal… but that always result in growth.

Each chapter, whether I knew it or not, led me to the next. Now that I’m back in Paris, relishing every minute, marveling at every experience, I’m glad I had the patience to follow through all those interim chapters since I was last here. It’s helped me to appreciate this new one more fully.

Likewise, you may not find paradise on your first try. But, at the very least, that willingness to try leads to a new idea…

I guarantee that the experiences along the way are worth it in themselves (honestly, there are times I miss those misty days on the Emerald Isle).

And don’t lose heart if you’re toting along a spouse or family member who isn’t always 100% on board.

This international-living stuff builds character.

They’ll thank you later.

Kat Kalashian

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Kat Kalashian has grown up around the world, living in the United States, Ireland, France, and Panama, and has traveled extensively in her few years. Growing up as a young expat she is familiar with the trials and tribulations of an overseas move and the adjustments that must be made in every new destination. Living and learning through experience, she now considers no one place home and feels more comfortable in new environs than in familiar ones. After living in Panama for seven years, where she enjoyed living for a stint in the tropics, she and her husband relocated back to Paris, France, in 2018 where they now live full-time with their American-born cat, Panamanian-born dog, and French-born daughter. Her post as Special Projects Manager of Live and Invest Overseas keeps her busy… whether it’s spearheading a big new product, MCing Live and Invest conferences, or scouting out new locations for coverage, she’s always on the move and eager to discover new things.

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