In 1948, Álamos was discovered by William Levant Alcorn, a farmer from Pennsylvania. Alcorn saw the potential and began restoring Álamos one building at a time. Paying just US$50 to US$100 for many of the mansions, he made a fortune promoting Álamos and selling real estate. (In fact, his daughter is still selling real estate here today.)
Álamos was declared a national monument in 2000 by President Zedillo and was named a Pueblo Mágico in 2005. The latter is a designation reserved for towns that offer a “magical” experience, thanks to their beauty, historical significance, and cultural riches.
Today, Álamos has recovered and retained its original 17th-century charm, with stately colonial mansions, cobblestone streets, narrow alleys and passageways, a magnificent church, and a beautiful town square.
But why is it particularly suited to single women?
After hundreds of discussions with single women considering moving abroad, I’ve noticed common concerns. Granted, some of these are important to men, too… but I think you could say that Álamos specifically fits the bill for women, for the following reasons:
English-speaking expats: The community here has a cohesive and active English-speaking expat community, with many artists, writers, and musicians. Active residents also spend time birdwatching, hiking, and bass fishing. Most expats are from the lower 48, Alaska, and Canada, with a few from Europe.
Walkability: Álamos is a very walkable town. We had a car when we visited, but we only used it to travel to another city. Otherwise, all of the cafés, restaurants, markets, shops, and events were within easy walking distance.
One caveat: Walkable as it may be, the town is hilly. So, if you have difficulty walking, you might want to stick to the level parts of the historic center. If you don’t mind some mild exercise, you’ll find some great views from the colonial neighborhoods that surround the historic center.
An active social life: Álamos has maybe two places that qualify as fine dining, one of which has an active and fun bar on the premises. Otherwise, there are a dozen or so down-home restaurants and cafés, offering standard Mexican fare at affordable prices.
If you’re after lots of fine-dining choices and a hot nightlife scene, then Álamos won’t be for you.
But there’s plenty of less-formal social activity in Álamos… far more than you might find in many other overseas venues. You can participate in walking tours of the downtown that visit three historic homes… different houses each week. The History Association meets every Thursday, and expats convene regularly to enjoy formal presentations on topics of shared interest. There are frequent events and festivals on the town square, afternoon and evening cocktail hours, and girls’ nights out.
Personal safety: No place is completely crime-free, but it’s safe to walk the streets of Álamos alone, day and night. Lee reports that, after many conversations and interactions with members of the local expat community, he never once heard any concern over crime or safety.
A rich cultural experience: You might expect the established expat community to dominate the town, but that is not the case. While the expats add financial support to many local efforts and engage in the community, they don’t over-shadow the local culture.
Álamos is unquestionably a Mexican town, from the piñata store to the coffee roaster and the local mariachis… and especially the tortilla man, who brings warm, fresh-baked tortillas to the neighborhood on his motorbike every morning at 7 o’clock.
Opportunities for volunteering: If you’d like to give something to the community, there are plenty of ways to do so. Expats host frequent fund-raisers supporting the local community… especially the education of local young people. Whether it’s the library, theater, clinic, or elsewhere, there are volunteer opportunities out there if you’re interested.
All that aside, the #1 reason that Álamos is the best place for women on their own is because women are the leaders of the expat community. They stay in touch with each other, hang out together, and support one another when they need it.
Don’t get me wrong—men are welcome here, too. The “women on their own” are not all necessarily unmarried or unattached. Some of them leave their husbands at home for the winter season, while others come as a couple… in addition to those who really are on their own. Some live here full time, while others come for the North American winter. There are a handful of people in their 30s and 40s, but most female expats here are between 50 and 90. Some of the most active community participants are over 80.
I’ve been to dozens of expat venues that are suitable for women on their own. But Álamos is far more than “suitable.” Here, women can thrive… and truly belong.
In Álamos, single women don’t have to worry about “fitting in”… indeed, they’re the ones at the core of the community.
Kathleen Peddicord
